Shrine of the mandir

Shiv Parivar शिव परिवार

Shiv Ji with Maa Parvati and Ganesh — the divine family, with Nandi and the sacred Shivling.

The murti of Shiv Parivar at Shri Maha Kali Bhameshwari Mandir

In the Shiv Parivar shrine stand Shiv Ji, Maa Parvati and Ganesh together — the divine family — with faithful Nandi before them and the sacred Shivling, washed daily in offering.

Who they are

Shiva is Mahadeva, the Great God — pure consciousness itself, the still ground upon which all power moves. In our Shakta tradition his relationship to the Mother is the deepest teaching in the mandir: Shiv and Shakti are inseparable, consciousness and its living energy, which is precisely what Maa Kali’s foot upon him expresses on our main altar.

Shown as Parivar — family, with Parvati at his side and Ganesh in their arms — he is the model of the divine household: ascetic and householder at once, the renunciant who is also the most devoted of husbands and fathers.

Reading the shrine

  • The Shivling — the aniconic sign of the formless Absolute, honoured as a pillar of light. Worshipped by abhishek: water, milk, honey and bilva leaves poured in offering.
  • The trishul — his trident, traditionally read as mastery over the three of everything: creation, preservation, dissolution.
  • The damaru — the little drum whose beat, tradition says, sounded creation into being.
  • The third eye — inward vision, which burns illusion when it opens outward.
  • The crescent moon and the Ganga in his matted locks — time, and the river of grace, both held gently.
  • The blue throatNilakantha: he drank the world’s poison to save it, and held it where it could harm no one.
  • Nandi — the white bull who faces his lord forever: patient strength, and devotion that simply stays.

Shiv Parivar at our mandir

Milk may be offered on the Shivling at all times — devotees are warmly welcome to bring it. (Only the lighting of diyas directly before the Shivling is restricted, purely for fire-safety and insurance; the devotion itself we honour completely.)

His great night is Maha Shivaratri (February–March), kept with vigil and abhishek; his holiest month is Sawan (July–August), especially its Mondays, when jal abhishek is performed — our priest performs Rudrabhishek through the year. And Monday, all year round, belongs to Shiv Ji.

See the Shiv Parivar’s shringar — dressed and adorned with the same care as every murti in the mandir.

The Shivling shrine at the mandir — a black stone Shivling in a marble abhishek basin with Nandi before it, murtis of Shiv Ji, Maa Parvati and Ganesh above, and a framed Shiv Parivar picture behind
The Shivling shrine, with Nandi before it and the Shiv Parivar above. Abhishek is offered here — milk, water and honey poured over the Shivling. The shrine is kept for washing, so please do not place a lit diya directly in front of it.

Shringar

Shiv Parivar through the year

The same murti, dressed anew through the year. See the full gallery on Maa's Shringar.

5 shringar

  • Shiv Parivar at Shri Maha Kali Bhameshwari Mandir, dressed in the shringar of a different day (1 of 5)
  • Shiv Parivar at Shri Maha Kali Bhameshwari Mandir, dressed in the shringar of a different day (2 of 5)
  • Shiv Parivar at Shri Maha Kali Bhameshwari Mandir, dressed in the shringar of a different day (3 of 5)
  • Shiv Parivar at Shri Maha Kali Bhameshwari Mandir, dressed in the shringar of a different day (4 of 5)
  • Shiv Parivar at Shri Maha Kali Bhameshwari Mandir, dressed in the shringar of a different day (5 of 5)

All shringar galleries →

Questions people ask

Can I offer milk on the Shivling?

Yes — milk may be offered on the Shivling at our mandir at all times, and we gladly support this tradition. The one restriction is lighting a diya directly in front of the Shivling, which is limited purely by fire-safety and insurance rules — never by any objection to the devotion itself.

What is the Shivling?

The Shivling is the aniconic emblem of Shiva — the form of the formless. The word linga means 'sign' or 'mark': it points to the Absolute that has no shape, honoured in tradition as a pillar of light without beginning or end. It is worshipped by abhishek — the pouring of water, milk and honey — rather than by image.

Why does Shiva wear ash and a serpent?

Shiva is the great renunciant: the ash of the cremation ground says that everything passing will pass, and he is not afraid of it. The serpent at his throat — stilled and worn as an ornament — is fear and death themselves, mastered. His third eye is inward vision; the crescent moon in his hair, time held gently.